Is the love between the two over or is it just a bad phase?

1. When you started this relationship, did you have in your mind that it wasn't forever?

I always knew, from the get-go, just kept going to see what would happen. Not really, the idea crossed my mind, but I didn't think it would be so. This crisis has taken me by surprise, I still believe we can be together.

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2. Are you doing anything to fix the differences like in previous crises?

I'm tired of trying, we always end up in the same thing, no progress. I'm hoping we can fix it, but I don't think it will. We are making every effort to fix this and move forward.

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3. Do you still feel love for that person even though sometimes you don't love them?

I look at him, I observe him, but I can't find that love that was there before. Sometimes I think so, other times I don't want to see him, but there is still some affection. I still love that person, even though sometimes I think I don't, I don't want to lose him.

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4. Does it bring you some relief to break the relationship and be free at last?

To finish this later, it will be the best thing that can happen to me. I want to try it, but the idea of ending the relationship doesn't depress me. It doesn't bring me relief, it makes me extremely sad, I still want that person with me.

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5. Does it make you angry to feel that you wasted the time invested in this relationship?

In a way you can't imagine, I have enormous anger towards that person. I don't want to think about it because then I'll get really mad. It wasn't a waste of time, if we break up I'll appreciate what we had together.

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6. Have you sat down and talked with your partner about everything that's driving you apart?

It's not worth it, the fights are constant and there is no going back. I've tried, but I feel like we can't hear each other when we talk. I always try to talk it over and will keep doing it as long as I can.

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7. Would you be able to stay friends if they broke up?

No, I'm not interested in having a friendship with that person, it's not good for me. It would be difficult, but I would try it if the things for it are given. I would like to be friends, I hope you are also interested in the same.

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8. Do you feel that one of you has more interest in maintaining stability than love?

We both have that economic interest, we just stick together because of it. Both things matter to us, but economics is not greater than love. I'm only interested that we're good as a couple, the other is not relevant.

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9. In a possible separation, are you afraid of losing him or losing material things?

I'm afraid to start from scratch, the material is very important. I'm afraid of both, I can't help but think about the economic losses. The material is recovered, I'm worried about losing that important person.

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10. Are you afraid of loneliness? Is that the reason you don't end the relationship?

I'm terrified of being alone, I don't feel capable of starting a new relationship. There is always the fear of being alone, but there is something else that binds me. It's not that, I'm not afraid of loneliness, it's just that I don't want to lose him.

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Is the love between the two over or is it just a bad phase?

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